I’m so glad you found me here. My name is Nicola Ryder.

I’m a hairy alternative babe with a taste for pleasure and an insatiable thirst for adventure. Whether I’m exploring a new city, making art with friends, roaming the wilds, or delving deep with a new lover, I always approach the world with keen curiosity and coltish enthusiasm.

I am a study in complimentary contrast, and enjoy a wide range of presentations. I can be your fiery femme, tough leather babe, poetic sweetheart, or boyish crush. Muscular physique, artful tattoos, lush dark curls, smooth under-cut, and long flowing mane—I embody both feminine elegance and androgynous allure. How long have you been searching for a novel muse like me?

Strong and soft, assertive and sweet, I am hot for both sensual vanilla dates and kinky encounters. I’m a verse switch, I have been lucky to engage in a plethora of BDSM play and have developed a varied palate. I especially enjoy stepping into a nurturing dominant role, and am an adept guide for seasoned players and wide-eyed newbies alike. Would you like to lose yourself in my scent and soft fur? Do you dream of surrendering power and drowning in sensation? Exploring sexuality and gender? Would you like to be firmly, ardently filled up? Imagine the look on my face while I stand over you, hot liquid streaming over you. Did that make your pulse race? I’m so glad.

I take mutual respect, genuine connection, and pleasure very seriously. Whatever our dynamic, I always aim to co-create a safer space that is free of any shame or judgement.

A brief rendezvous is forever a thrill, and I savor an afternoon delight, but my favorite dates are often those that leave plenty of time to connect and share our interests. Maybe this means taking a stroll in the botanic garden or contemporary art museum before we indulge our more carnal wants. My classic beauty, quick wit, and easy charm make me excellent arm candy. Show me off at the gallery opening or play footsie with me through a film screening, then take me out to that chic restaurant or hole-in-the-wall to flirt over the best food in town. Or maybe we tumble from the hotel to the smokey jazz club for a nightcap. Either way, I’m a whip-smart conversationalist and relish watching someone cave to my magnetic eroticism while we discuss ideas that light us up.

One of my greatest joys in life is connecting, and I am grateful every time someone trusts me with their dearest desires. Mine is a world of gleeful perversion and unabashed delight. This site is an open door, won’t you come in?

xoxo
Nicola